LIVING IN A WORLD OF LIES

"Have you ever been in a situation where in you spend every minute listening on everything he/she says?"

In our world, not everything we see and hear are true.







There are 3 kinds of story:

1. The ORIGINAL. The is the TRUTH! NEVER BEEN FALSIFIED or BEEN FILTERED. This story comes from the mouth of the victim or the one who really witnessed the whole story. Our eyes don't lie but our mouth does.
2. The FALSIFIED. This is the LIE! Of course, from the word itself, FALSIFY. This pertains to the opposing side. Sometimes those people who witnessed the whole story can also falsify it. For example, they will say that they didn't saw the whole thing or they were just victims but the truth is, they really witnessed that thing and they are part of the story! They just make stories.
3. The FILTERED. This pertains to TAMPERED STORIES. These are the stories which is partly true and partly not. Sometimes it is combined with another story which is not basically related to the original one. This can also be called as the REVISED one. When you say revised, it means those inappropriate things have been removed and changed it into more decent and appropriate. So the original story is no longer original.

There are words that you may thought as real. How do you say so? Okay, maybe you are just blinded by your feelings or maybe the LIAR has just this sweet tongue that can make other people flatter or believe on them.


But hey! WAKE UP! There are lots of strangers out there that can either tell you the truth or just give you a lie. You just need to be very cautious in every move you make. Don't be driven away by your emotions. Sometimes you have to think about on something before you believe. 

I just don't want you to end up believing on something which is just a complete lie. So I made some tips for you on how you can say that someone is lying. I basically these tips are based on my very own experiences in life.

• He/She is keep on STUTTERING. These are the people that can speak normally but because they lie, they tend to stutter. It seems like their tongue was trying to say something but their teeth was trying to stop or avoid it. 

• He/She is not maintaining EYE CONTACT. We all know that eyes are the window to your soul. It means you can see sincerity in their eyes. If they can look straight on us without any unusual or suspicious movements, it means they are telling the truth. This is intended for those who don't have problems on their eyes.

• He/She is keep on CHANGING STORY. In court basis, whenever your story isn't consistent at all, they will already accused that you are lying. Just to clear things out again, this is applicable for those who have normal comprehension. Whenever that someone is stating the story, it has never been constant. Sometimes, when you asked him/her again, they tend to change it or the subject has been different from what he/she said earlier. Flight of ideas!

• He/She becomes so DEFENSIVE. Why would you defend something you never did? Are you getting what I am trying to say? It is like, there are more abundant reasons than the truth. They even provide too much information which are totally nonsense already. They point a lot of things. They become so hostile.

• He/She constantly REPEATING what they are trying to say. This thing happens when they are trying to convince you, make you believe on them. Sometimes when you don't get what they are trying to say, they tend to get mad and put back the story on you. In short, the subject is now about you!

• He/She is having INAPPROPRIATE MOVEMENTS. Sometimes, they shuffle their feet, they nod, they become sweaty, and becoming so uneasy or uncomfortable. This is a manifestation to cover up their anxiety or nervousness. Sometimes they tend to lean away just to show that they aren't interested. Sometimes they develop poker face. 

• On your part, you tend to FEEL SOMETHING UNUSUAL. Sometimes you have to trust your instinct. I think I don't need to explain this furthermore.

In our world today, we can no longer determine or differentiate what is real from not.

 Sometimes we have been blinded by good things they have been showing to us. Whenever you suspect someone's lying to you, try to investigate or to assess them. 

No one will cheat if no one allows to be cheated.

- SLENUJ